The Celebrant Support Network - Engaging with one another

Just prior to me becoming an Authorized Celebrant, I was alerted to the existence of a group of Celebrants and 'wannabe' Celebrants who meets once a month at the Belmont LeisurePlex. I was advised that this group acts as a Support Network for Celebrants and those who aspire to become one.

So I decided to throttle out there one Sunday afternoon in December 2009..to check it out. I was thinking to myself that I would be able to learn from others...especially when I have to conduct my first wedding ceremony the weekend after.

I got there and walked into a room of about six other people...who spontaneously welcomed me with open arms, though not literally. They are a larger group but for a host of reasons, not many could attend on that Sunday. After some brief introductions...and discussions on a range of topics, they all stood up....and demonstrated the recommended ‘standing positions” for the wedding party/celebrant in response to my query about the issue. I immediately felt reassured about what I had planned or proposed to do at my first wedding ceremony.

What I found most heartening is the group’s commaraderie, sincerity and their ‘collective’ willingness to help. More importantly...there’s no indication of zealous rivalry amongst the group, more a recognition of each other’s strengths and weaknesses...and how we can all help each other. Each individual appeared quietly confident without the self-importance.

In no time at all, I no longer felt like a ‘newbie’ in the group. Since that first meeting, the group have progressed further..by becoming more organised. In an effort to raise awareness and continuous improvement for all attendees at these meetings, it was agreed that each meeting will have a focus on one key aspect of Celebrant work. Those who have previous experience on such matters almost willingly agree to play a lead-house role in facilitating the discussion at the next meeting.

At the last meeting, the naming ceremony was discussed and a recent example of what was performed at Esperance ...was shared with all present. All these discussions not only serve to reinforce what we have learned in our training but also provides the opportunity to hear new ideas...of ‘how others are doing it’. Very enlightening indeed!! We also hear about what's happening in the Industry and the tribulations (if any) associated with it..without contributing to the goss...naturally.

For me..these meetings provides me with the opportunity to ‘engage’ with my peers and share ideas and resources where appropriate. The fact that I will, in all probability; not be doing a lot of Celebrant work merely reinforced the need for me to stay ‘engaged’ with the group. The additional bonus is that I find all the individuals in the group easy to relate to. Ask no more !!! and if you are a wannabe Celebrant and want to get involved, just email me.